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Top 5 Summer Swimwear Picks

Tuesday, May 30, 2017

Hey guys!

Long time no blog! Never fear, inspiration has struck! I'm more active on my Snapchat if you want to follow me there. My snapname is @fairlyfabulousb.

It's summer!!!! I don't know about you guys, but I'm dying to get out of the country to somewhere warm for a week or two, to relax and soak up the sun!

I've trawled the web to find my top 5 swimwear picks from some of my favourite shops, so you don't have!

I have a mixture of bikinis and swimsuits for you guys to chose from, and they're all from site's with actual, physical shops, so you can try them on if you're not a fan of online shopping. I know I prefer going into the shop to try things on. :)

So here we go, in no particular order!

Floral Frills Swimsuit

H&M
Shop: H&M
Price: €29.99
Link: Here!

This is such a summery pair of swimming togs! Just looking at it, I want to be on the beach!

Bright florals are very 'on trend' at the moment. Add that to the frills, and you may as well be just stepping off the catwalk!

This paired with massive sunnies and a fab white, open cover-up would look amazing!

Here's what it looks like from the back:

H&M


Gorge! It looks like a bikini, so you'll be able to tan your back!

Pink Printed Bikini


Penneys / Primark
Shop: Penneys / Primark
Price: Top €5 Bottoms €3
Link: Top and Bottoms (You can't order online, only available instore)

All together, this is only €8. €8!!!! I love Penneys!!!

Next time I'm in town, I'm definitely getting this set!

It's so pretty and girly, and would look great with a tan!

This bikini accessorised with a straw hat would look gorgeous!


White Swimsuit with Bow Detail


Zara
Shop: Zara
Price: €25.95
Link: Here!

* I'm really not a fan of the way Zara photograph their clothes. I know they have a vibe going, but you're actually not able to see the clothes properly. It's annoying! *

Anyway, on to this swimsuit!

I love white swimming togs, whether it be a swimsuit or a bikini, and the white bow detail up the side is so cute.

One thing about white togs. A tan is essential, otherwise, you'll look washed out!

This suit will look amazing paired with black accessories!

Tropical Print Bikini




River Island
Shop: River Island
Price: Top €25 Bottoms €17
Link: Top and Bottoms

Personally, I wouldn't spend this much money on a bikini, but I loved it so much that I included it anyway!

I love the shape of it, and the pink and blue accents are great.

A bikini that you can take the straps off and it won't fall off you is essential for summer, especially if you like laying out for a tan, and don't want tan lines from the straps. I've actually stopped buying bikinis if they don't have this.

One of those neon see-through visors and a pair of sliders will look fab with this bikini!

Lilac Crisscross Swimsuit



Forever 21


Shop: Forever 21
Price: €25
Link: Here!

I LOVE THIS ONE!!!

The colour.
The shape.
The detail.
The price.

FAAAAABBBB!

I'm actually going to get this the next time I'm in Forever 21. It's soooo cuuuute!!!

Can you tell I like it or no?

This would look great with a black crochet cover-up and strappy black sandals!



So that's it for me this time! I really like doing these wish list types of posts, cause it gives me an excuse to trawl though online shops, all the while, stopping myself from splurging!

I hope you liked this post! Let me know what you think about these pieces! If you buy any of them; if you have any already; or if there's a gorgeous swimsuit out there that I've missed, make sure to get in touch! My social links are below!

Love,

Aoife :) x

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Lifestyle

13 Reasons Why... My Thoughts

Saturday, April 08, 2017

Hi guys,

This post is going to be different than usual, but I think you should read it.

I've made a very conscious effort not to have any *Spoliers* in this post, but be warned, one or two may have slipped through. Also *Trigger Warning* for bullying, rape and suicide.

'13 Reasons Why' Poster
Source: imdb

Last night I finished watching the new Netflix Original show '13 Reasons Why,' based on the book of the same name by Jay Asher. It was amazing, but incredibly hard to watch at times, especially towards the second half of the series.

'13 Reasons Why' covered a wide range of topics from; suicide and depression; loneliness and relationships; to rape and gun culture.

I don't even know how to articulate my thoughts properly. I'm still reeling after watching it, but I'll try.

It made me sad, angry, furious, terrified and ashamed. By the end of it I was in tears.

If you're reading this, can you honestly say to yourself that you've never made anyone feel bad about themselves? Have you ever stood by while someone was being bullied? Have you ever laughed unkindly at somebody, called someone a name, or gossiped about them behind their back?

Your answer is probably yes. I know mine is.

Then there's the other side of those questions.

Has anyone ever made you feel bad about yourself? Have people ever stood by if you were being bullied? Has anyone ever laughed unkindly at you, called you names, or gossiped about you behind your back?

My answer is still yes.

There is something wrong with our society.

A society in which suicide is one of the leading causes of death among young people.

A society in which the majority of sexual crimes go unreported.

A society in which repercussions for bullying and sexual assault are few and far between, and often ineffective.

A society in which the victim gets blamed.

A society in which people think: 'Well at least it's not me'.

It's even upsetting me to write this post. But things need to change. People need to talk about this.

The amount of hate I've seen on social media lately is staggering. From Facebook groups that seemingly exist to bash people; to the comments section on News or celebrity posts; to bloggers being attacked on various social media platforms.

These 'trolls' see nothing wrong with what they're doing! I can only imagine that they think they're being smart or witty, or that they have the right to act like this.

Hiding behind their screens, they don't see the impact their actions have.

When trolling celebrities or bloggers, the go-to excuse for their behaviour is that they should expect it because they're 'public figures' or that they're 'putting themselves out there'. But no one, NO ONE, should expect to receive this hate. No one deserves it. These people are people. There are human beings on the receiving end of these comments. This seems to be something people conveniently forget when typing out these hurtful words.

In the last day. ONE DAY. I've seen two Bloggers/YouTubers being attacked on social media. One in a Facebook group, that, believe it or not, I'm afraid to name for fear of what they'll say about me if it reaches their computer screens. The other incident was on Twitter.

People taking time out of their day to ridicule and attack a blogger that they don't personally know, based on what they see of them on their screens. Disparaging young women for what they choose to show on their social media accounts. Body shaming them, tearing them apart. Delighting in it.

What gives them this right?

Why do they do it?

What do they get out of it?

It actually hurts me to see these things. I don't know how they handle it. I sure as hell know that I'd fall apart if that amount of hate was directed towards me. I can't even begin to image how celebrities cope, being in the world eye.

I no longer read comments on posts that I know will be full of hate and vitriol directed at the poster or the subject of the post.

I saw a Tweet on Twitter last night, aimed at a vlogger who has 551K followers on that platform, telling her that she should stop making videos if she didn't want people to comment on her weight. 

Seriously?!!!?!?

If you were being bullied and abused at work, how would you feel if someone you don't know told you that you should quit your job if you want it to stop?

I bet you'd tell them where to go.

And thank God, this woman did. She called out the people hurting her. Told them the impact that their words have on her.

I hope she's ok. I hope both of these women are ok.

But these people get it every day.

Why is that accepted?

It makes me so mad.

I'm lucky. I've received next to no rude or mean comments online aimed at me and my blog. But it makes me scared of Fairly Fabulous ever getting big, because of the cyber bullying that seems to come with the territory.

It's wrong. It shouldn't be like this.

I seem to have diverged from the original purpose of this post, which was to talk about '13 Reasons Why', but I think that this is what the creators of both the book and the TV series wanted to happen. They want people to talk about this. They want people to take a second and look at the way we treat other people. They want us to see the impact our actions can have on other people.

People can latch onto comments you throw out in passing, without thinking. It can have an impact beyond what you can imagine.

I think we, as a society need to examine how we treat other people, and make a concerted effort to be kinder to each other.

You have no idea what is going on in someones life.

'It's nice to be nice,' and 'If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing,' are cliches for a reason.

'13 Reason Why,' has started this conversation, but it is up to us to continue it.

If you've finished watching '13 Reasons Why,' watch '13 Reasons Why: Beyond the Reasons.' It's very important.

Peace and Love,

Aoife :) x

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